Ladies, you should have to have more patience and wait for the gentlemen to start the dance, he is the leader and your roles is a follower. Following is not means lose, but it means supporting. Ladies should know that man have a lot more to think about the movement than the ladies, so be patience if the man looks slower than you whenever learning some steps. Focus on your following skill and most importantly respond to every lead of the man.

Gentlemen, when taking a partner on the dance floor, don't rush into heavy and complicated choreography at the very first beat. Try to warming up the ladies with some nice easy basic steps and gradually increasing the level of patterns. This will lead more fun experience whenever dancing and you will get a better response. I remind you once again that your job is about to get your partner look good and beautiful and not focusing too much on yourself; you do this and in return you will look good as well.

About Leading

Most people got a wrong impression about leading whenever see that visually in their eyes. Usually they will think that leading is about forcing the partner to do something, using more power to pushing or pulling the ladies. This is a wrong idea. If you pushing or pulling the ladies too much whenever they are not even finish to settle their weight, they will lose their balance, and in return they will automatically grab and hold on you to retain her balance. Leading is about caring; leading is about showing the lady where they should go or when they should do. Imagine that leading is just like whenever a man walking arm in arm with a lady in the park, enjoying their walk. No push and no pull, but the lady will always go wherever the man go. That's leading.